Friday, January 18, 2013

O - HI - O

Our time in Ohio was a whirlwind...I am writing this post about 2.5 months after the fact (don't judge- I have been a little busy lovin' on my baby boy) so hopefully I can remember the details surrounding bringing Braylen home! This may not be the most interesting post, but I am attempting to keep a journal for Braylen to know the details surrounding his birth.
 
Wednesday, October 31:
Happy Halloween! We spent the day with our sweet boy at the hospital. We also spent a lot of time with Braylen's birthmother and her family. It was so nice to be able to learn more about her so that one day we will be able to answer any questions that Braylen may have.

 
That afternoon we went on a tour of all the Babies R Us and Target stores in the area in search of a carseat and a pack and play. Apparently, there had been a lot of babies born recently in the small town we were in so we had trouble finding the carseat we wanted. After a few hours we were finally successful and headed back to the hospital.

Wednesday night we were able to have our own room down the hall from our birthmother's room. This made it so much more convenient and we didn't feel so far away from Braylen.

Thursday, November 1:
I did say it was more convenient to be staying at the hospital, but maybe not so comfortable. :) Hospital beds are not the best and I am guessing Q will say the same about the awesome cot he got to sleep on. Oh, well. We again spent the day in our birthmother's room with her and Braylen. Late that afternoon, she asked to spend some time with Braylen alone before she was discharged that evening from the hospital. I'm so glad she got the chance to snuggle him and say goodbye before she went home. I know it was really hard for her to leave that night, but I am so very thankful for how strong and brave she is. I can't imagine the courage it took for her to leave the hospital that night. Our hospital room suddenly became much more lively as Braylen moved into our room that night. Even though we didn't get much sleep, it was the best night- it was the first night we felt like an actual family! So blessed.



 
Friday, November 2:
As of 7:31pm tonight, our birthmother could have signed her adoption consent (there is a 72 hour waiting period in Ohio), however the hospital did not discharge babies at night so we had to wait until Saturday for her to sign the consent and us to be able to leave the hospital. Friday was spent hanging out at the hospital. Not sure if any of you have spent much time in a hsopital, but it is a really strange experience for everyone to be completely healthy and still having to hang out in the maternity ward. The nurses and doctors were great and let us have a lot of freedom, but it was still a little strange to be there- we just wanted to go home!


This was the day that my Mom, Dad, Tyler and Stacy arrived from Wichita. They are such troopers and drove like 16 hours so we would have a car to drive home with Braylen in. Thank you soooo much!! Actually, they just couldn't wait any longer to meet sweet Braylen so they used the car as an excuse to come see us! :)

 
 
Saturday, November 3:
Best. Day. Ever. We got to FINALLY leave the hospital...yay!! Although this was such a happy day for us, it was an incredibly hard day for our birthmother. As if Thursday night wasn't hard enough for her, Saturday was definitely not easy. Thank God she had a supportive family by her side during this process. The social worker arrived at the hospital about 10am to sign the paperwork with our birthmother. After she was done signing, she got to spend some time with Braylen while we signed our mountain of paperwork. Then for the hard part- we had to go say goodbye to our birthmother so we could leave with Braylen. Hardest. Thing. Ever. It is so strange to be so incredibly happy, yet so incredibly sad for someone else at the same time.

We finally left the hospital with my parents around noon and went to meet Tyler and Stacy for lunch. What else do you do with a newborn just discharged from the hospital? Go to Chili's and watch football, right?!? We then went to check into our "home away from home" - the Residence Inn for a few days while we waited for our ICPC adoption paperwork to clear so we could leave the state.

 
 
Sunday, November 4:
Oh, how different things are with a newborn in a hotel. There is no way we could all sit in a tiny little room all day. So, what did we do? We went to the Rock and Roll Hall of Fame! This is definitely something I would reccomend for every 5 day old to do! :) Lucky for us, Braylen was an awesome baby and slept his way through the museum. Late that afternoon, we went to a place called Melt Bar & Grill. This place had amazing gourmet grill cheese! I would highly recommend it if you are ever in the Cleveland area! My parents decided since they were in a swing state during election time they might as well go to a Mitt Romney rally. Check that one off the bucket list, Mom! Oh, and we snuck in a photo shoot with Aunt Stacy...


 
 
Monday, November 5:
Tyler and Stacy flew back to Wichita that morning. We decided to visit the Cleveland Aquarium. It was neat to see, but not quite as big as we had anticiapted. We also drove around to check out Lake Erie and all the industrial areas (Dad is intersted in all kinds of crazy things). We also had our first of 7 social worker visits. We will now have one once a month until we go to court to finalize Braylen's adoption on May 6th!



Tuesday, November 6:
Election Day! Wow, I can't imagine living in a swing state. If you thought ad's, picketers, etc were bad in your town you have no idea what Clevelad was like. So crazy, yet kinda cool to experience. We were a little low key today- just ran a few errands and hung out at the hotel.

 


Wednesday, November 7:
This is the day we decided to start migrating south. We left Cleveland and drove to Canton to visit the Pro Footbal Hall of Fame. Again, something every newborn needs to experience! The Hall of Fame was pretty amazing! We then drove through Amish country and visited a few wineries, cheese places and some amazing restaurants on our drive to Columbus.

 
 
Thursday, November 8:
We got the phone call! Yay! We can leave Ohio! Thank you ICPC for moving so quickly! After hearing horror stories of people having to stay in birth states for weeks and weeks I was a little nervous that it may happen to us to, but luckily the paperwork was filed Monday and just a few short days later we were able to head home! Since we were already in Columbus, we stopped by the birthmother's adoption agency to drop off some cookies and say hello. Q also had to swing by The Ohio State University to see the football stadium (Dad was oh so thrilled) before we hit the road. Did I mention that my Dad had been sick all week? Well, by Thursday he pretty much looked like death. And as most men are, he is not a good sick person so he was super pleasant on our drive home. :) Especially after we gave him some Nyquil and knocked him out. This was probably the one and only time he sat in the third row seat of the Tahoe and slept his way across the midwest.


We knew we wouldn't be able to make the whole drive in one day so we decided to stop in STL for the night. This worked out well because Kelly and Landon were able to come meet Braylen. Braylen loved meeting one of his BFF's!


 


Friday, November 9:
Up not so bright and early to drive from STL to KC. It was so amazing to finally be home with our sweet boy! Nana Jennings and Auntie Kristi were so excited to meet Braylen they were almost at our house before we were! :)

 


So, this is the story of our time in Ohio. It was probably more time than I ever wanted to spend in Ohio (not the ideal vaca spot), but definitely worth every minute. Where else could you go and come home with the best baby boy in the whole wide world (I know, I may be a little biased). Welcome home, Braylen Scott. You are so very loved.



Wednesday, November 14, 2012

Introducing Braylen Scott...

We FINALLY landed in Cleveland at 9pm...not bad considering we didn't have a flight till about 2pm! I immeditely checked my phone the second we could turn them on and saw this text: "the little guy decided to make his apperance!" What? We missed it? I had a quick flash of sadness that we weren't at the hospital for our son's birth, but that quickly subsided and turned into sheer excitement and joy!

Waiting for our luggage and getting a rental car seemed to take an eternity. We could not get to the hospital fast enough! We FINALLY arrived at the hospital a little after 10p and immediately went to our birthmom's room to meet our little guy.

Introducing Braylen Scott...



Born October 30, 2012 at 7:31pm
6lbs 13oz
19 1/2 inches long
 
 
 
 
 
Even though we didn't make it to the hospital in time for his birth, Braylen was only a few hours old when we first got to lay our eyes on him and we have been in love ever since. We thank God every day for bringing this precious boy into our family.
 
The hospital was full that night because they had had so many deliveries during the storm so we were unable to stay the first night. We spent a few hours with our sweet baby boy and then had to pull ourselves away to go find a hotel for the night. Hardest. Night. Ever. I hated not being able to be with my baby boy- I couldn't wait to get up the next morning and rush to the hospital!
 

Nearing the Due Date

I know many of you know the feeling...the waiting feeling when your baby is due very soon. We too experienced that feeling, but our waiting was a little different. When you are pregnant you KNOW how you are feeling, you KNOW if you are getting close to going into labor. When you are adopting, you are waiting, but you DO NOT KNOW if you are close or not. We had a due date- October 29th, but we didn't have many more details than that.

Our birthmom would text us every once in awhile with updates, but the week prior to her due date she hadn't progressed much...she mentioned that if she hadn't delivered by 3 days after her due date that they would induce her, but that was about all we knew. The waiting continued...

Monday, October 29th (the due date) came and went with no news. BUT, Hurricane Sandy had appeared and was causing problems even into Ohio. Maybe, just maybe the storm would cause enough changes in the weather to send her into labor?!? We could only hope...

Tuesday morning we awoke to news of large power outages, flooding and high winds in the Cleveland area. Hmmm....what do we do? We wanted so much to just be in Ohio- even if it was just to wait so we wouldn't miss anything. But, our social worker said we couldn't head that way until our birthmom went into labor and was being admitted to the hospital. Bummer.

 
This is Lake Erie near Cleveland during the storm...

Around noon I had given into the idea that there would be no baby today...that is, until about 1:30 when I received a text from our birthmomther. She was in labor and headed to the hospital!!! YAY! Quentin and I frantically began throwing clothes in a suitcase while my Dad go online to search for flights for us. Um...did I mention there was a hurricane that caused all kinds of problems across the east coast? Cleveland airport wasn't accepting incoming flights until 3:00pm, flights through Chicago were out due to major airline delays and flights through Nashville were being cancelled due to snow. Great.....

My Dad eventually found us a flight leaving Kansas City at 3:20pm, but we had to go through Atlanta. I didn't even care- just get us to Ohio!! During our trip to the airport and during our layover in Atlanta we continued to receive text updates from our birthmom as she was progressing. Please just let us get there safe and sound!

Sunday, November 11, 2012

Weekend #2

As I mentioned before, Quentin and I did the legwork for searching for the perfect baby furniture last weekend. Thankfully, my family decided to come to town this weekend to make the final decision. My Mom and I left the boys to watch college football while we went on the baby furniture search.

After looking at a few options, Mom and I decided on the perfect crib, dresser and chair for the nursery. Success!!

We headed back to the condo to drop off the furniture when we got a phone call from the boys that the garage door was broken. The boys had walked to a nearby bar to watch a little football and had planned on coming back in the house through the garage. It's a little hard to enter your house through the garage when the garage door is broken. My Mom had driven us so we didn't have keys to the house either. Of course, neither of us have our landlords phone number so we were forced to call a locksmith on a Saturday afternoon. Luckily, he got there quickly, but unluckily, he charged $125! Seriously, $125?  Quentin and I have learned our lesson. We now carry not only the garage door opener, but also keys to the front and back door.

After we finally got into the condo, Mom and I left the boys to put together the crib while we went out to do a little more shopping. We were a few blocks away when I received a phone call from our renters. They had locked themsleves out of their condo also! Oops. Lucky for them I was nearby and went over and unlocked the door for them. Crazy that it happened to both of us on the same day!

Mom and I then made our way to Pottery Barn for success #2 of the day...baby bedding!

Yay! Baby J's room is starting to come together in just 2 weeks time.